I and my boyfriend have been relationship for five years now. We met within the College and we are actually planing our marriage ceremony ceremony though he has not formally proposed to me.
After our NYSC I acquired a job as a secretary in a agency whereas he stated he would try to search for one thing doing however at any time when I go to him, he’s at all times on his laptop computer and barely has my time.
I complained severally about his steady give attention to his laptop computer as a result of he even warned me by no means to the touch it. I didn’t see something fallacious with him asking me to not contact his laptop computer as a result of I felt he was nonetheless being too psyched in regards to the laptop computer which he purchased for over N300ok regardless of not having a job.
Anytime I ask him what he’s at all times doing that makes him focus all his consideration on his laptop computer, the reply he offers is that he’s making an attempt to get a greater life for us. It made me begin suspecting that he’s into web fraud however I simply tried to blow the ideas off.
Since I acquired a job, I’ve by no means requested him for cash as a result of I’m an impartial lady and I make my cash. At one level, he transferred 500ok to my account and requested me to maintain it for him. After I inquired how the cash took place, he informed me that his dad offered their household land and that was his personal share.
Currently, I at all times really feel sick anytime I’m going to spend the weekends at his place. I really feel dizzy and generally I’ve this sharp ache in my chest. This, alongside quite a lot of nightmares once I sleep over.
On this trustworthy day, as I used to be sweeping the home within the morning whereas he was sleeping, I discovered a calabash that was empty underneath his mattress. I shortly dropped it again, packed my bag and informed him I used to be going dwelling. He questioned why I used to be leaving in a rush however I merely informed him that I had pressing issues to take care of. Since that day I’ve not gone to go to him and I’ve been avoiding his calls.
My query now could be, what may he be utilizing such a calabash for?
Am I nonetheless protected within the relationship?